What to do with that arrogant colleague that you can’t stand?

What to do with that arrogant colleague that you can’t stand?
Mon, Sep 19, 2022, Anta Faye

Work can sometimes be a source of tension, stress and anxiety for many people. It's unfortunate because many of us spend most of our lives at work.

In many cases stress and anxiety at work comes from our colleagues. Those among them who are arrogant can be particularly troublesome and hard to pin down. However, your behavior with them can lead to adverse consequences if it gets out of hand. So the tips below should help you get the hang of it. Keep everything in perspective. Remember that your main objective is to work and earn a living first and not necessarily to make friends. However, maintaining cordial and friendly relations with colleagues and collaborators will make your work environment more pleasant. Unfortunately, personality clashes are not uncommon in business. What also needs to be taken into account is that the attitude of an arrogant colleague has nothing to do with you. So avoid investing yourself emotionally when this arrogance is manifested. Keep your distance. Have a spirit of going beyond and always be correct and courteous to your arrogant co-worker, but let them know clearly when they are overstepping their bounds. This means when he disrespects you, wastes your time, prevents your team from working, and so on. Lead by example and have a mediating influence. Calmly let him know that his behavior is inappropriate and hurtful. If he persists, use a firmer tone, and in the extreme case make your decisions if you are his superior, otherwise report the information to your superior. Develop confidence and self-esteem. Arrogant people like to give themselves importance at the expense of others. Show that you have confidence in yourself without being arrogant; speak your mind loud and clear rather than remain silent. Get involved in the activities and life of the company.