Hatred, sorrow, bitterness, suffering..., what are the downsides of love?

Hatred, sorrow, bitterness, suffering..., what are the downsides of love?
Wed, Sep 21, 2022, Mina

But can love really be associated with fairy tales that always end well, where the prince and princess meet and live happily for the rest of their lives.

Sometimes things fall on us when we least expected it, it can be an end of a life of misery, a luck that smiles on us, an unexpected pregnancy, a broken household, a broken friendship and in the worst of cases, lost illusions, a broken heart, shattered dreams, a feeling of sadness, a despair that drives us to suicide, etc. Even if some people do not have the courage to think about it, others kill themselves easily because for them it is the only way to escape, the only exit route when faced with the suffering they feel after a breakup. Sorrow, suffering, regret, hatred, ... What causes love? While some were fortunate enough to be happy, others were not so fortunate. Some men will think that love is food of weak and uncultivated people and that in the end we become dependent, vulnerable and shabby, therefore they dedicate themselves to casual sex by making women believe in miles and wonders. And once that thirst for desire and conquest is satisfied, they move on to something else and change the horizon. How many women have been heartbroken, how many men are responsible for it; we smile upfront while we suffer inside. Hatred sets in and finally gives way to grudge. Finally, we give ourselves a false image of love because we did not come across the right person, we’ve been so far dealing with the wrong men. But can love really be associated with fairy tales that always end well, where the prince and princess meet and live happily for the rest of their lives. In real life love has no place, even if some people after having a broken heart continue to believe in love, others on the other hand no longer believe in it, they let themselves go, get depressed and turn their backs t love. It’s strange but it’s life!